LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS

Relationships have always fascinated me. The way we love, the people we choose, and the stories we tell ourselves about connection. Here you’ll find my observations on dating, relationship trends, self-worth, and personal growth. Not because I have all the answers, but because I believe curiosity is one of the greatest tools for growth. After all, every relationship teaches us something—especially the one we have with ourselves.

Jul 31

**Alt text:** Vintage illustration of a confident blonde woman in black lingerie, fishnet stockings, and long gloves lounging with her legs raised while two men attend to her and a glamorous dark-haired woman looks on. The retro artwork evokes classic pin-up aesthetics and exaggerated gender dynamics with a playful, satirical tone.

Why “Mean” Women Get the Respect Nice Girls Beg For

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I was always an assertive little girl, so naturally, I grew into an assertive woman. It probably does not help that my birth chart is mostly made up of fire…

Jun 18

A cinematic portrait of a woman in a soft blush satin dress standing in front of a shadowed male figure, with a pale pink fabric wrapped across her eyes, symbolizing being blinded by love or emotional illusion.

The Story You Tell Yourself About Love Changes Everything

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We all have that friend who talks about how she only attracts assholes. Or maybe you are that friend — the one who, every few months, is cycling through a…

Apr 29

Knowing When to Leave the Party: How Charli XCX’s Party 4 U Captures the Right Person, Wrong Time Phenomenon

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The idea of "right person, wrong time" has rarely been captured as poignantly as it is in Party 4 U by Charli XCX. It's almost ironic, coming from an artist…

Feb 14

Bianca Censori is The Empress Who Has No Clothes: Empowerment or Control?

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Bianca Censori has been making headlines these past two years with her risqué fashion choices. Before becoming Ye’s wife, she was an accomplished architect and an employee of Yeezy. And…

Jan 24

10 Years Offline: My Journey of Self-Discovery, Survival, and Starting Over

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In numerology, 2025 is represented by the number "9." It symbolizes completion, reflection, spiritual growth, and tying up loose ends—a cosmic nudge to let go of what no longer serves…